Thursday, March 24, 2011

Closer

As we get closer to the one year mark, I have found that I have absolutely no idea how to handle the day. It is my husband's birthday and the day our little girl was born still. How do I wrap my head around that? I don't know what to do. Do I wake up and act like everything is normal? Do I try to have some kind of tradition? I just can't even process it and I know Tyler doesn't know how to handle it either. Man, this sucks...

3 comments:

cjdubs13 said...

I would celebrate your husband's birthday but do acknowledge your loss of your daughter and so something special for you. Thinking of you...

The Echols said...

I found your blog recently, I am so sorry for the loss of your little girl. You will be in my thoughts as this day approaches. I hope you and your husband find some way to remember her that will satisfy you both.

My New Normal said...

Well everything isn't normal so there's no point in acting like it is. Maybe have a nice dinner at home to celebrate hubby's b-day. You could light a candle in honor of your daughter and have it on the table. Just a thought.